All posts filed under: Communication

Escape your comfort zone

We love feeling comfortable. Fact. The idea of wearing a fitted dress or a suit whilst relaxing at home isn’t as appealing as throwing on a pair of jogging bottoms and a baggy t-shirt. Neither is the idea of attending an unfamiliar church by yourself as appealing as attending a church where you’re greeted by familiar faces. Our comfort zones often define our actions – what we are willing to do and what we won’t do, where we are willing to go and where we won’t to go. Whatever the circumstance, the level of comfort we experience will play a role in the outcome of many situations. Despite having such positive connotations, comfort isn’t always a good thing… Advertisements

Should women make the first move?

I had grown to spend a lot of my time with him. Our friendship began with an act of kindness on his part, and I couldn’t help but appreciate how willing he was to go out of his way to help me. We just seemed to hit it off, so it was easy for us to spend a lot of time together. The more time we spent, the more I became emotionally attached without even realising… In my mind, we had become so close that it didn’t make sense to just remain friends. But there was just one problem- he still hadn’t made a move! It didn’t make sense to me, and I found myself getting more and more frustrated with the situation.

What’s Money Got To Do With It?

  If a man took you out for a meal, but then asked you to split the bill, what would you say? After asking various women this question, the general response was that they would willingly split the bill. Even though it is nice to be treated in such scenarios, the responses include opinions surrounding the fact that a man shouldn’t be expected to pay;